Rochester storyteller to make off-Broadway debut

As a self-proclaimed “Late blooming transgender woman,” Penny Sterling is used to talking about her life in “foignant” ways (meaning, as she explains, both “poignant” and “funny”).

Her upcoming one-woman show at the 18th annual United Solo Festival called “Mounting Washington, the Story of a Mountain & a Miracle,” is another attempt at “foignancy.”

In the show, Sterling reflects on her pre-transitional quest to become a less toxic man. It was an endeavor that culminated in the (self-admittedly) improbable and inexplicable decision to ride a bicycle to the top of Mt. Washington in New Hampshire, a route known to cyclists as the “World’s Toughest Hillclimb.”

Sterling describes the tale as a “charming, slightly goofy, and fascinating story,” perhaps enhanced in that aspect since she will be pedaling that same bike on stage during the show. But she also believes in the importance of telling her story.

“I look at this as my mission, my ministry, if you will, in the world,” she says. “I believe that trying to change people’s minds is impossible unless you first change their hearts. My endearing, open, and engaging stories serve this purpose, giving people what is sometimes their first encounter with a trans woman, and helping them see that I’m just another person working my way through the world. Except maybe I’m a little bit funnier than most. Seriously, everyone who sees me says everyone should see me.”

Although Sterling has been involved in the performing world for a long time, writing shows came about due to encouragement from family and friends who asked questions about her transition. Her responses became the framework for her first show in 2016, “Spy in the House of Men: A One Woman Show with Balls.”

Sterling went on to create “Parents & Children, Husbands & Wives: It’s All Relatives,” a musical show with singer/songwriters Mike and Mel Muscarella; “SHMILF LIFE,” her take on dating as an older transgender woman; and “Someone No One Can See” with PUSH Physical Theatre.

Being a part of the United Solo Festival represents a leap of faith to Sterling, who is thrilled to be performing. The resident company at Theatre Row on 42nd Street is dedicated to the genre of one-person shows and aims to elevate the form by supporting powerful and unique artists. Since its inaugural year in 2010, United Solo has featured more than 1,600 productions from all over the world.

“Every time I do something out of fear, no matter how it turns out, it also brings me more fear,” says Sterling. “Every decision based in faith, whether I’m ‘successful’ or not, has always brought me one step closer to a life that is second to none.”

In this journey, she is also seeking help from her local supporters. The festival only books another show when the first is completely sold out and does not provide financial support, meaning each performer must cover food and lodging expenses on their own.

Sterling also wants to support the other members of her show, musical director Linsey Rogers and stage manager/kazoo player Bri Landrum.

“I want to ensure that we all have the funds we need to survive, so I’m going to need lots of help!” Sterling says.

The performer will be hosting several fundraising events to that end over the next few months. This begins with “Penny’s Foignant Fundraiser” at Muck Duck Studio this Saturday. Opening for Sterling will be Ariel Allen-Lubman, aka Boy Jr.

Additionally, Fuego Coffee Roasters and Melo Coffee & Kitchen are roasting a special edition coffee to help raise funds for Sterling throughout February. Husband-and-wife owners Renée and Tony Colon will donate $5 for every $20 bag of “Penny’s Foignant Blend” purchased.

“Penny is a dear friend of mine, and I love what she’s doing,” says Renée Colon. “I am very proud of her and excited to support her.”

“Penny’s Foignant Fundraiser” will be on Saturday, Feb. 22 at Muck Duck Studio from 6 to 9 p.m. Tickets are $20 with sliding scale and gift tickets also available.

Sterling will perform “Mounting Washington, the Story of a Mountain & a Miracle” as part of the United Solo Festival on Saturday, April 5 at 2 p.m. Tickets are $52.50.

Jacob Schermerhorn is a Rochester Beacon contributing writer and data journalist. 

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