An icon in Rochester’s Black community

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Midge Thomas, who created an intellectual and social haven for Rochester’s Black community with her husband and then sustained it for more than 50 years after his death, died Jan. 8 at Rochester General Hospital. She was 99.

She had been hospitalized for several weeks with respiratory problems, her goddaughter, Beverly Randall, said.

Midge Thomas was best known as the wife of Dr. Freddie Thomas, a pioneering Black scientist at Eastman Kodak Co. and the University of Rochester; her 2023 biography was titled “Letters to Freddie.” But she was also a Rochester icon in her own right, mentoring countless young people and creating spaces that provided intellectual and cultural opportunities for the community.

Mayor Malik Evans honored Midge Thomas on her 99th birthday last August. (Photo: Facebook/City of Rochester)

She co-founded the Rochester branch of the National Association of Negro Business and Professional Women’s Clubs and served as an early president. After her husband’s death, she created the Freddie Thomas Foundation as well as the Triangle Community Center, organizations meant to carry his life’s work forward.

“She was just a very special person,” Randall said. “You don’t find people like that every day.”

Margaret Caroline Banks—Midge was an early family nickname—was born Sept. 1, 1926. She grew up in Mumford, where her father’s family had been founding members of the small but active Black community. She graduated from Caledonia-Mumford High School in 1944, then got a degree in cosmetology from the Adrianne School of Beauty Culture in Rochester.

She opened a beauty salon in Mumford and ran it from 1947 until 1956, when she met Freddie Thomas at a party. They married less than a year later, in February 1957, and bought a house on Skuse Street off Hudson Avenue. It became “a community center of knowledge,” according to a 1978 article in about … time magazine, where “the dining table was a conference center for distinguished scientists, clergy, historians, scholars, and people from every walk of life.”

Midge Thomas served as hostess and mentor to the teenagers her husband would bring home for impromptu tutoring sessions.

“I always set the dinner table with a few more placemats each night because someone would inevitably come over, whether it was a young boy eager to learn, a curious teenager who heard about Freddie helping youngsters, or our adult friends simply walking in for good conversation,” she said in her husband’s biography, “Silent Leader.” “Our place was always open to people of all kinds, all hours (of the) night.”

The beginning of the end of the Thomases’ married life came in 1972, when Freddie Thomas first began to feel the symptoms of multiple myeloma, a cancer affecting the plasma cells in bone marrow. He died Feb. 24, 1974, a few weeks after the couple’s 17th wedding anniversary.

It wasn’t long before Midge Thomas’ grief turned to resolve to continue his work in the community. “I decided I wasn’t going to Mt. Hope Cemetery with a piece of concrete that said Freddie Thomas,” she said in 2024. “I wanted to do something to help folks.”

Within months of her husband’s death, she founded the Freddie L. Thomas Foundation, which sponsored and coordinated a number of community activities. One of the most prominent was a series of holiday dinners on Thanksgiving and Christmas that drew hundreds of people.

The foundation owned the Triangle Community Center on Andrews Street. The center provided space for many nonprofit service providers. It was sold in 1982 and is now known as Harro East.

Another project came to her one day in the 1980s as she was walking home from the pharmacy. She had just taken pills and needed a glass of water but was turned away at several restaurants. Stung, she raised money for a three-spigot water fountain outside the Liberty Pole. She dubbed it the Miss Jane Pittman Drinking Fountain, after the character in Ernest Gaines’ novel. Gaines attended the opening ceremony in 1989.

Midge Thomas lived for most of her life on Liberty Pole Way in a small house that she made into a sort of informal community center. She was a strong advocate for downtown and in recent years she helped with beautification projects through Downtown ROCS. The Midge Thomas Community Garden, at North Clinton Avenue and Pleasant Street, was dedicated in her honor in August.

It was one of many accolades she received in her later years, including designation as a New York State Woman of Distinction in 2023. Scores of plaques and certificates covered a wall in the front room of her house.

The last such honor came just this week. One day before she died, a mural inspired by her was unveiled on the side of Abilene Bar and Lounge, right next to her house. It was painted by local artist Shawnee Hill and shows Black and white hands, fingers interlaced, inside a circle of flowers.

“Midge lived a life full of purpose, deep devotion, and determination,” Mayor Malik Evans said in a statement. “She and her beloved late husband, Dr. Freddie Thomas, played a powerful role in Rochester’s Civil Rights history, advocating for equity, inclusion, and justice. … She has made a profound impact on our lives and in our community, for which we will forever be grateful.”

Midge Thomas leaves no direct survivors. Funeral arrangements have not yet been made. As a final homage to her late husband, she arranged for her body to be donated to medical research.

She lost the ability to speak for some time before her death, Randall said. Her last words, instead, were a pair of messages she wrote out in a faint hand.

One was a note to the doctors and nurses: “Thank you.” The other, a message to a visitor, was put up on the hospital room wall. It said only: “Helping others.”

“She just cared about people,” Randall said. “Right to her deathbed, she was still caring about people.”

Justin Murphy is a Rochester Beacon contributing writer. He is the research and communications coordinator for Our Local History and a former reporter for the Democrat and Chronicle.

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4 thoughts on “An icon in Rochester’s Black community

  1. I had the privilege to interview her for the an oral history project about the history of Willow Domestic Violence Center. When everyone else was turning them away, she was instrumental in offering space for the organization’s first shelter. She was visionary. in her use of her resources.

  2. Thank you Midge for coming into my life in the mid 60’s. A lot of us in the neighborhood around Hudson Avenue were not involved in anything other than church group. You along with the late Vivian Sullivan helped us see life from a different perspective. I felt so proud being your little sis in the organization at that time. I was also very blessed to be tutored by Dr. Thomas. Such a great opportunity living around the corner on Hudson Ave. I will never forget you. My firstborn in 1974, Dr. Kisha Cunningham is your God-daughter she always felt honored by that. Rest well mother you will always live in my heart
    Rev. Marilyn Cunningham 💞

  3. Program Tribute Message

    In my 72 years of life, I have never witnessed a marriage as harmonious and loving as the one shared by Mrs. T and Brother Freddie. Their union was a shining example of devotion, patience, and unwavering commitment. She was the perfect wife, and he was the perfect husband—each completing the other in ways that inspired everyone blessed to know them.

    Though they did not have biological children, they were parents in every way that truly matters. They nurtured, guided, corrected, encouraged, and loved so many of us. Mrs. T had a remarkable gift: she made each of us feel like we were her favorite child. And I’m here to tell you…I absolutely was. Lol.

    Today, we take comfort in knowing she is reunited with her beloved Brother Freddie. For that, we say Hamdulilah. Their love story continues—just on the other side.

    We thank G’d for allowing you, Mrs. T, to be such a meaningful and unforgettable part of our lives. Your presence shaped us. Your kindness lifted us. Your love will remain with us always.

    May your memory be a blessing, and may your legacy live on in every life you touched.

    One of many sons of Mrs T and Brother Freddie….
    Jeron Rogers

  4. Midge lived by a simple belief of service to others. As Mother Teresa once said: “Don’t be afraid to give until it hurts.” Midge lived simply over her 60 years of giving to everyone, but herself. My heart is broken, what a gem she is (not was) to so many.

    Rich Calabrese, Jr.

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